Hugs-Only from 2009 Onwards


I’ve tried to implement this idea in previous years without very much success. I hope writing about it and calling it a ‘New Year’s Resolution’ will help its progress in 2009 and beyond.

I’m not a big fan of germs. More importantly, the bad ones like dirt. I realise I can’t get away from them, but I can control how/if they enter my life.

Thus, I’ve decided to only hug people from 2009 onwards. I’m going to officially launch this in February because there has to be time for people to read this, and somewhat of a transition time because I sometimes stick my hand out without even thinking.

This is for everyone. Exectutives, homeless people, girls, boys… anyone!

Hugs are more personal. Hugs are warm. Hugs don’t involve touching some guy’s hand that wasn’t washed when he last took a wizz.
I’m NOT calling out guys, but from my observations they seem to be the main culprit; and I mostly hang out with girls. I have seen girls leave the toilet without washing their hands.

It’s not just toilet washing though. It’s eating pizza with your hands and then touching your keyboard. It’s playing with a dog and going to bake a cake. It’s filling up gas and then touching your steering wheel (most gas stations have taps near the gas pumps).

Also, some men don’t know how to shake hands. I know a few that try and crush my hand just because of their masculine physique. I can’t imagine how that makes a girl feel: ‘Oooo, he crushed my hand! He can be my strong man!’ The best handshakes are from someone with soft hands who grips evenly. And even then a hug from them would be better.

In summary, if you see me, hug me. I’ll love you for it.

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  • very interesting information on hugs and handshakes discuss at large.Hugs are more personal. Hugs are warm. Also, some men don’t know how to shake hands. I know a few that try and crush my hand just because of their masculine physique.
  • Leanne Steen
    hey Derek!!!

    it's your 'canadian' cousin here, Leanne.....just stopped by to let you know how excited we all are to have you come up and spend some time with us! your little cousins (Cameron, age 7 and Andrew, age 4....as well as Lukie age 2) are super excited and are compiling a list of things to do while you're here....so far you will be going 'up in the mountains' to ski/snowboard, to the movies to see "Hotel for Dogs" and having lunch at McDonalds for 'a treat' (lucky you!!!)

    but seriously, we are thrilled you can fit us into your schedule and just want you to know you're welcome to stay for as long as you like! we have a full suite in the basement, so if you love Canada - and you will - you could stay indefinitely....as long as you'll share the playroom down there with us, that's where we keep all the fun toys!

    so, let us know when we can pick you up at the airport!

    HUGS from us all until then, L :-)
  • Hi there Derek, >hugs< I see that you and your cousin are skiers / snowboarders... Come visit us here at Tahoe for skiing and snowboarding, I wager you'll have a great time!
  • I will hug you so hard you'll have to ASK me to stop! :)

    *supermassivehug*
  • Don't top. Crush my bones.
  • Miiitch
    *hug*
  • Guy hugs rock too!
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